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Vino and I play different sports, but I’m fine with it as long as he enjoys what he’s doing. Growing up, I was naturally drawn to basketball because of the people who surrounded me. My older cousin, who used to visit and stay at our house, watched the NBA. Our helpers...

I don’t get evaluations for doing what I do, so it falls on me to give myself rewards I think I deserve at times. I’m not saying being a housedad is a thankless job. I find it very fulfilling. I get to do things that parents who care for their kids could only hope...

Vino and I have developed a habit of having snacks after his club and right before football training. On Wednesdays, Vino has art club at school and football training in the evening. Instead of heading home, we usually just get snacks from the nearby hawker and take...

Vino has been juggling between wanting to be independent and staying as our baby boy these past few days. On one hand, he’s been excited to go on the school trip without us and has been asking to go to school and come home by himself. On the other, he would cling on...

Vino’s sports day for their year level finally went down after it was postponed by rain last Friday. It was going to be from 9am to 11am, so Che and I dropped Vino off at school and waited in their cafeteria until parents were allowed in the spectators’ area. Once the...

It was Vino’s first game of the new season, but the games are now in the afternoon instead of the mornings. We planned on going to church early in the morning, with 10am being the most ideal timing. However, as the morning went on, I could feel that we weren’t going...